When I joined the fencing team four years ago, I was very focused on my own performance. I placed a lot of pressure on myself to the point of feeling burned out. In the subsequent years, I learned that turning towards my teammates, celebrating with them, and leaning on them for help made me enjoy fencing so much more. Looking back I mainly remember the bus rides, flights, and adventures we had around tournament weekends, like going out to dinner with my teammates in towns we’ve never been to before, or getting glimpses of snow (some of us for the first time).